Beware: What you are looking for is what you see; If you have a negative perception of someone then the minute they show up you will see them that way!
What you focus on is what you get; our job is to allow people to change by changing our opinion of them.
Create and manifest joy out of what you are given; Make joy out of every moment and the miracle of your existence.
Sit down and write out what your values are because when your values are clear to you your decisions are much easier.
Seek to understand and lead by example and a place of love.