Most of us don’t think well of ourselves and look to others to feel loved. When you don’t like yourself or feel confident in who you are is where the enabling of others begins. This becomes Codependency.
What is codependency??
How you think about who you are and your value is directly connected to feeling loved or unloved. If you didn’t feel loved as a child, then your thoughts became distorted in believing you were not good enough or valuable. You grow up and find familiar relationships that don’t value you and because it matches how we feel about ourselves it feels like love. Then you do all you can to please that person just to feel loved. You continue to do more than is required in a relationship and become addicted to enabling your partner hoping to feel loved. You don’t put up boundaries because of the fear of rejection and abandonment.
It may feel like love for a time until your partner begins to disrespect you for doing too much and you end up feeling rejected and abandoned. When you no longer feel what you thought was love then you become confused and disenchanted about life and love.
At this point, you don’t know where to turn because the world you thought you had control of suddenly unravels, and sadness and depression sets in. What is needed is recovery from how you thought about and loved yourself before you got addicted to enabling your partner hoping you to feel loved. Recovery begins when you harness and change the negative hidden thoughts in your head about yourself and who you really are.
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